Marriage Counseling
Couples often mistakenly believe that their marriage is in trouble because they argue angrily with each other.  Arguments by themselves do not doom a marriage, however.  Important research suggests that the keys to a successful, stable partnership are the ability to reach out to each other in moments of conflict and to enjoy the humble tasks of daily life.

In my office you and your partner will learn to speak from your feelings, to make clear requests for action, and to listen without interrupting.  Together we will explore the life experiences that you both bring to the table and the history of your beliefs and values.  In this way you will gain insight into the topics and habits that block effective communication between you. I can help you listen to each other so that you both feel heard.  I can also help you set and observe boundaries so that neither of you feels short-changed or overshadowed in your partnership.

I will invite you to identify your personal goals.  As each of you refines your understanding of your own needs, the vision of your future that you share will become clearer. You will be able to set goals for your marriage collaboratively and to support each other in the face of challenges. You will learn to celebrate yourselves and your partnership without feeling overwhelmed by the demands of work, children, and extended family.